There’s a difference between a house and a home. A house is a just a structure. A home is made up of the aromas, artefecats and traditions that embody the identity of its occupants. It is the energy of patience, tolerance, unity and connectedness.
When I was a little girl, we often connected with my dad’s family over *Eid-ul-fitr and **Eid-ul-adha. It was something I looked forward to every year, but it was short lived.
10 years ago, my cousin got married. Over the years I was fortunate enough to be able to spend a significant amount of time with her in-laws.
This is where I learnt the true meaning and value of family. Quality time and care afforded to each member of the family unit (immediate & extended). The traditions upheld either by way of a simple meal shared together, a boardgame, a box of dates in preparation for the holy month of ***Ramadhaan, a little gift to welcome the Islamic new year, a sincere, heartfelt conversation about overall wellbeing or a prayer for goodness & divine blessings. Nothing fancy just regular connection, unity, support and comfort.
Healthy, positive family traditions give children a sense of security and safety. It creates a sense of belonging and informs a sense of identity. It is a powerful way of shaping memories, establishing values, building relationships and sharing lived experiences. Family traditions continue a legacy of heritage through generations and give life meaning. It is essential to survival; studies prove a distinct correlation between knowledge of family history in adolescent identity and well-being.
Today’s activity is to enjoy a family tradition, we’d love to hear about some of your family traditions.
*Islamic holiday to mark the end of the holy month of Ramadhaan.
**Islamic holiday to commemorate the sacrifice of Abraham and the completion of pilgrimage to Mecca.
***Muslims observe a month of fasting from dawn to dusk.
If you’re reading this, say a prayer for this family. For their generosity & kindness and most importantly for their continued health and wellbeing 💙